Ruffles

Someone recently commented to me that I wear a lot of clothes with ruffles.  I'm a big girl and it's usually not a good idea to wear ruffles as they make things look even bigger.  Well I like to draw the eye away from my problem area which is lower down and behind me, so I tend to wear tops with interesting necklines or features and as I don't have a big bust I think I can get away with a few girly ruffles.  Is that OK?  I don't know, I just like them, they are so feminine so I'm going to keep wearing them.  I hope the fashion police don't catch me any time soon.